With understanding of impermanence, REAL understanding of everything arising to pass away, we will no longer be trol seeubled by anything that presents itself in our experience.
"This too shall pass."  Whether it is something that brings pleasure, pain, both, or neither, this too shall pass.
Then we will see the world through a whole new lens.  Everyone who is weighed down by the past, present, and/or future... they
are weighed down by mental constructs alone, so much of the time!  By BELIEVING that life is hard because a loved one passed away 10 years ago and you have been grieving since,
you are ensuring that that is your reality.  But if you believed that you were grateful to have had that person in your life while they were here and now you embody their qualities in honor of their life,
then you are not weighed down but instead "raised up".  It is the same thing happening at the physical level, but an entirely different life at the mental level.
Ohhhhhhhhh Juancito and then there is ONLY COMPASSION left.  Compassion for everyone who thinks that there is a real, permanent hardship occurring in the life.  Because they think it it is so.  They do not have to think it.
But because they think they have to think it, it is so.  Ohhhhhhhhhh if only we could look directly into their eyes and replace this belief system with one that lightens the load!
It is everywhere.  It is all around us.  And if we grow deeper and more penetrating eyes to view it with, then we grow deeper and more penetrating wisdom to help.
Leave behind your own problems and you see the problems of all around you.
See the problems of all around you and feel how much potential you have to help.
Feel how much potential you have to help and see where that takes you in your life.
Live your life for others and you will always be happy and free.